Sometimes it's difficult to find joy in the season, especially for those who are in the middle of a health crisis, or a dear one who has recently passed away, or those seeking employment, or who may be estranged from their family. There are many reasons why some cannot seem to find joy in this season. They cannot sing out "Joy to the World". There are many around the world in crisis, many of us in the US are uncertain what is ahead. Everyone of us has some kind of struggle, whether it's outward or inward. The happiest season of all can be the most difficult for some. Now I am not trying to put a damper on anyone's joys, but I think we truly need to be aware of those who are hurting.
We can all play a part in bringing joy to the world. A simple smile, a thank you, reaching out to give a hug or a handshake. Offering to pray for someone is a powerful overture. God has blessed me with a loving family and a great many friends, those of whom I couldn't have dealt with my sweeties' health issues without them. If we just reach out, call that friend, post that note in the mail, drop a few coins in those Salvation Army pots, we may be lifting their spirits and bringing a little joy into their world.
"The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen." ~ Elisabeth Kubler-Ross
Until next time.....
People pressure themselves around the holidays. They want everthing to look or at least seem perfect. Often, they spend beyond their means. Really, the gifts you mention - kindness, smiles, hugs, and prayers bring people the greatest contentment and peace. It's the spirit of Christmas that's the most important. A good reminder, Deanna.
ReplyDeleteSuch a lovely message! I hope you are finding joy as the season of giving and enjoying progresses!
ReplyDeleteWell said, by one who knows. xxoo
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ReplyDeleteVery true and well said.. Merry Christmas Deanna!
ReplyDeleteWords from one who knows pain inspires us everyday with joy and a smile...that's you Deanna...Merry Christmas...
ReplyDeleteA beautiful and heartfelt post. I don't know you personally but I can tell that you are a beautiful person. Merry Christmas and a big hug. xo
ReplyDeleteThe holidays are a hard time for so many, so much hurt and sadness. Every one needs an extra prayer this time of year.
ReplyDeleteThis is so true, Deanna. I wrote a post last Christmas that I titled "Say it Anyway". Several of my family members and a dear friend were going through many crisis events and I just felt such a need to address it in a post. I love that you titled your post JOY sometimes but we all know that there are those times in our lives when joy can't seem to be found and it is especially sad at Christmas time. Here is the link address to my post that I thinking about updating and reposting since the circumstances that I wrote about have changed....some for the good and others not so much, unfortunately. http://debbysfavoritethings.blogspot.com/2015/12/say-it-anyway.html
ReplyDeleteBeautifully said Deanna . . .
ReplyDeleteReaching out . . . and care . . .
Add beautifully written and sincere post. Yes even in the middle of trouble and struggle with the Lord on our side we should be able to find joy. Reaching out to others is usually the answer as often others are worse off than ourselves. I'm just off to Malawi not will be scheduling in posts but will not be commenting favour I hope you have a very lovely and peaceful christmas.
ReplyDeleteI'm one of those struggling this year to come to grips with a generalized grief at world events and happenings here in this country. Tiny efforts to cheer others are good medicine for my own malaise. A smile and cheerful word lifts their spirits and mine. Thank you for this lovely post!
ReplyDeleteWhat a beautiful post this is, Deanna, and so important, especially at this time of year.
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Deanna,
ReplyDeleteFirst, Thank You for this short and important post! In the last week I have been a prayer warrior for family and friends with major health issues and struggles. In addition, my Aunt died of overain cancer shortly before Christmas several years ago.
Second, I personally struggle with "the most joyful time of the year." December 18th is the anniversary of my second miscarriage. This pregnancy loss was hard because at the first OB appointment we had a live fetus and heard the heartbeat. The second OB appointment was not so good. Our "Christmas News" was to announce that I was pregnant. Not so fun to call home and share sad news. You mention the song Joy to the World, to this day I still tear up when I hear it. I don't know why Joy to the World, but it gets me every time.
I am blessed beyond what I deserve and know that God has a reason for our life and the struggles we endure. I hope that you count your blessings and have a joyful Christmas. All the best to you in 2017.
It's so easy to forget how difficult the holidays can be for so many people - this is a beautiful reminder. A little bit of kindness goes a long way in the best of times and even more so during hard times. I'm happy you have a close and supportive family to be with you as you miss your Sweetie. Have a very happy Christmas!
ReplyDeleteSitting here with a fireplace and some tea....I love your posts....grateful that God sent. His son.....what a gift...for today and eternity. I liked this article...
ReplyDeletehttp://annvoskamp.com/2016/12/why-doesnt-god-heal-people-we-love/
You're words are so true. it's not always a hallmark moment. Xoxo
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